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Extra Read: The Power of "Good Morning"


A Simple Gesture That Shapes a Young Person’s Day

There’s something quietly powerful about hearing “Good morning.” 




It’s not just a greeting—it’s an acknowledgment. A small moment that says, “I see you. You matter. You’re here.”

For young people, that acknowledgment can set the tone for the entire day. And the absence of it? That can speak just as loudly.

🌞 More Than Just Words

Saying “Good morning” may seem minor, but research shows it can increase happiness, social connection, and emotional well-being. It’s a micro-interaction that contributes to a young person’s sense of belonging. In schools, workplaces, and homes, this small exchange can ease anxiety, build trust, and set a positive emotional baseline.

When a caring adult—whether a parent, teacher, coach, or community member—offers a warm “Good morning,” it reinforces that the young person is seen and valued.

🕳️ But What Happens When It's Missing?

Imagine starting your day and no one speaks to you. No eye contact. No simple nod or hello. For youth, especially those navigating unstable homes, stress at school, or environments that lack affirmation, that silence can feel like a rejection.

It may seem small, but it can compound the message they already wrestle with: “I don’t matter.”

In fact, studies show that children who lack consistent positive engagement, especially at the start of the day, may carry those feelings of invisibility into their behavior, attention span, or even self-worth. Emotional neglect doesn’t always come in large, traumatic forms. Sometimes, it’s in what’s missing.

👁️ Connection as Prevention

From a prevention standpoint, this is a reminder that connection protects.

We often talk about substance use, violence, or risky behaviors. But before a young person makes a harmful choice, there are often emotional warning signs: isolation, disconnection, or a deep sense of not being seen.

That’s why prevention starts with relationships. And relationships are built in moments, like saying “Good morning.”

🙋🏽‍♂️ What You Can Do

  • Say it. Whether you’re a parent, school staff, or community member, say “Good morning” with intention.

  • Mean it. Eye contact. A smile. Let it land.

  • Teach it. Model the habit for young people so they learn how to acknowledge others too.

  • Don’t underestimate it. Even if they don’t respond right away, it matters that you reached out.

💬 Final Thought

We often look for big solutions to help our youth, and yes, systemic change is necessary. But sometimes, the power to shape a young person’s day, even their sense of self, comes down to two simple words:

“Good morning.”

It’s more than a greeting. It’s a first step toward connection. And for some youth, it might be the only one they get that day.

Angela Hollingsworth










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